this is the third place

Phone-free community events for connection cravers & small talk haters 💛

• Phone-free gatherings in Melbourne • Intimate groups, low pressure • Focused on authentic conversations • We move around (not only in Brunswick) • Coming alone is expected & encouraged A “third place” refers to a third space outside of home and work where you can be fully yourself and feel a sense of belonging. And that’s what we hope all our events feel like for you. 🫶🏼 Most gatherings follow a similar flow: - Settle in + solo quiet time - Social time with games provided - Main activity rotates (sometimes none) - Gratitude circle to conclude ✨ MINDFUL MEETS: relaxed, slow-paced, good for first-timers ✨ MAKING MOVES: high energy, social, equally fun Open to all adults of any gender, sex or background. 🌈 *Some photos and videos are taken at events.

Recent events

What's coming up

Sat 16 May at 12:30am

Hosted by Ashley Misso

MINDFUL MEETS: Breath & Tea 2.0

Brunswick, VIC

Sun 17 May at 2:15am

Hosted by Ashley Misso

[east melb] Flow & Feast 2.0 | 2000s themed 🎶

Croydon, Maroondah

Sun 24 May at 5:00am

Hosted by Ashley Misso

[18+ only] PLEASURE WORKSHOP: Leading w. curiosity & play

Brunswick, VIC

Sat 27 June at 4:30am

Hosted by Ashley Misso

MINDFUL MEETS: PITCH YOUR PASSION

Brunswick, VIC

Meet the host

Ashley Misso

Founder and host of @thisisthethirdplace. Pilates instructor, compulsive side-quester, and driven by the belief that a village doesn't build itself. · Brunswick

Hola! It’s Ash — I do a bit of everything, but my passion is connection. I have always been the first to reach out. When I moved to Australia 2 years ago, I found it hard to make new friends, and I quickly realised that most people here are in the same boat, just too polite to say it. 🤭 That's why I started The Third Place. I wanted to create a space where showing up alone isn't brave — it's expected. Where you don't need to know anyone, have anything to say, or perform a version of yourself you haven't settled into yet. The village doesn't build itself. I'm just obsessed with making it easier to start. 🪄

FAQs

Updates